The voice behind

I was shopping for an occasion the other day with my bestfriend and somehow I found myself always wanting to hear a voice behind telling me that the outfit looks great. Of course my bestfriend did. I didn't want to hear one voice though, I wanted to hear many voices. Do you find yourself in the same situation? Isn't it that no matter what you wear, you are the person you are ? The outfit is simply the way others see the outside of you, and therefore no matter what, if you get a chance to speak, you will either overshadow the outfit (if you were interesting) or the outfit will overshadow you. Well, I would like a mix of both :-)